I have become semi mute lately. I no longer speak much I feel that it is best I remain silent and keep my mouth shut and bit my tongue as much as possible. I give people the benefit of a doubt. I found out that people I trust have been dishonest with me. It really sucks and has you doubting others. One may ask how do I know it's true? Trust me I know their the only one who would have known the information. I have also been accused of things that aren't true. I really dislike it when assumptions are made about me. All I ask is for people to call me aside and talk to me and ask if you have a concern and not to discuss it with others because then rumors start. I hate being the last one to find out something that supposedly happened. I get that it's hard to talk to people I know for me if I care about you it's harder for me to talk to you or to say "No", but if I value you as a friend then I will get the balls to talk to you. Then it always end up being easier than I thought. It takes a lot for me to trust people and once that has been violated you have to rebuild it.
Showing posts with label avoidance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label avoidance. Show all posts
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Did You Say Something?
I have become semi mute lately. I no longer speak much I feel that it is best I remain silent and keep my mouth shut and bit my tongue as much as possible. I give people the benefit of a doubt. I found out that people I trust have been dishonest with me. It really sucks and has you doubting others. One may ask how do I know it's true? Trust me I know their the only one who would have known the information. I have also been accused of things that aren't true. I really dislike it when assumptions are made about me. All I ask is for people to call me aside and talk to me and ask if you have a concern and not to discuss it with others because then rumors start. I hate being the last one to find out something that supposedly happened. I get that it's hard to talk to people I know for me if I care about you it's harder for me to talk to you or to say "No", but if I value you as a friend then I will get the balls to talk to you. Then it always end up being easier than I thought. It takes a lot for me to trust people and once that has been violated you have to rebuild it.
Monday, June 1, 2009
Warning contains Explicit content...Oops...pt 2 (UPDATED)
After being home for about an hour the person who lives with me knocked on my bedroom door and I said "come in" and this person said "How was your day?" I said " It was good. Then they made a statement saying I think Joe (fake name) is scared of you and I said why? They said I don't know maybe it's because when you came in one day and he said "Hi" and you said "Hey" and went to your room. I said "Why would you think that though, we've never spoken aside from Hey" and they said "because the last couple times you've come home he all of a sudden has to leave." They said he just left I said "when?" they said right after you pulled up I said I didn't see him.I said I know why he is dodging me and they said why I said "because he saw me in my ******** a week ago and is probably nervous about facing me" They said Oh Yeah! I forgot about that happining. I don't know what the big deal is I'm not embarrassed or upset about it. So I need some manly advice from the men viewers of my blog!
What would be some reasons why he would be nervous facing me after that incident? Has anyone been in his position before? What the big deal? I would like to understand. Also he still hasn't mentioned the incident to my friend. My friend doesn't care they think it's funny :) So my mind is wondering........................
UPDATED: I guess the men are shy! Okay any Females have any opinions
UPDATED: I guess the men are shy! Okay any Females have any opinions
